sorry about what happened with your gf. hope you two can work it out. she sounds like a wonderful person, who doesn't belong with some jerk that doesn't think of her happiness before his own, like you do. If her evil ex doesn't leave you alone, beat the [censored] out of him, yell in his face, or call the police or something. sorry. I can dish out a fair amount of relationship advice, but confrontational advice isn't my strong point... which is weird, since I haven't been in a relationship, but have been in tons of confrontations.