Haha, alrighty. Well first of all, don't pull your hair out. It hurts.
Second thing to know is that trophy poses can't be edited. They can be turned, tilted, etc. (I can help you with that, if that's what you need) but the pose itself can't change. If you want to do a custom pose then you're gonna have to work with the regular character model (not the trophy one).
Not sure if that answers your question or not... Does it?
Oh, also, make sure you click the save button before you export it.