well, this is why we have
an entire section for just guides... but, i'll help anyways.
for vertexing,
this is the one i use. it seems easy and basic enough, but you'll definitely have to play around with 3ds max for a bit to get used to it. but once you do, it'll be pretty easy to vertex.
as for model porting,
i happen to have a small guide on how to do so. and by small, i mean huge. it includes almost all glitches that could happen to a model port, and how to fix them. it also has a brief hexing guide, and a guide for using Tabuu (a program).
as for the rest, just check out the top link. you'll find just about anything you'll need.