Heh, funny, but the reason you're leaving us is basically the same as mine. Atleast, what I tried to accomplish for monthes now. We're both shy and want to become more outgoing IRL, seem to have time-managing issues, and never had a gf.
I can totally relate to you. Except that I never was able to leave the communities I was in, and right now, I'm basically facing a life/identity crysis because of it. You're still young, SDoom, so I wish you manage to reach your goal before the same happens to you.
I'm not going to say "We'll miss you." because I know from experience it's the kinda sentence that prevents people from leaving.
I'll just say that you'll always be welcome here. Whenever you feel you have reached your goal, and feel like coming back to say hi, nothing will have changed. We'll still remamber you, and you'll have lost nothing important from not coming here, but you'll probably have had a lot of great times. IRL is where the best things happen. ;3
So ... yeah, don't worry too much about us, we'll manage it no matter what happens. And more than anything else ...
HAVE FUN BUDDY. =3 *hugs*